A Plea For Godly Parenting
May 11, 2025 Pastor: Hardin Crowder Series: Hearing God’s Voice: Lessons From The Life of Samuel
Topic: 1 Samuel
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A Mother’s Day Minute:
Good morning, and Happy Mother’s Day! Before we open God’s Word together, we want to take a moment to honor the incredible gift of motherhood in all its forms. Whether you’re rocking a newborn, chasing toddlers, navigating school pick-ups and drop-offs, offering wisdom to teenagers, or counseling grown children, know that you are valued, and deeply appreciated. Your commitment, strength, and love shape lives in ways words cannot fully capture. You may not always see the fruit right away, but you are planting seeds of faith, character, and love that will last for generations. You are building something eternal.
Today we also remember the mothers who are no longer with us. Though they may be gone from this world, their legacy lives on in our lives, our values, and our memories. We give thanks for their love, and we take comfort in the hope that they are at peace in the presence of our Heavenly Father.
We also want to recognize the spiritual mothers in our church. Even if you have not raised children of your own, you have helped raise us. Through your prayers, encouragement, and presence, you have nurtured hearts, shaped faith, and reflected the love of Christ. We honor you as well.
Each of you reflects the beauty of God’s design for motherhood. Your care mirrors His compassion. Your strength reflects His faithfulness. And your influence runs deep through the life of this church. Thank you for all that you do and all that you are. May this day bring you joy, rest, and a renewed sense of how deeply loved you are, both by God and by us.
Finally, as we do each week, we take a moment to remember that we are part of a greater body of believers and we pray for one of our sister churches in the wider Goochland community. Today, we lift up Evergreen Baptist Church, asking God to strengthen their ministry and bless their worship this morning.
Opening Prayer:
Heavenly Father, today we thank You for the mothers among us, women whose dedication, sacrifice, and love reflect Your own nurturing heart. Strengthen them in their daily work. Comfort those who grieve the absence of their mothers, and remind us that their legacy lives on in us. As it is written, “Her children rise up and call her blessed” (Proverbs 31:28). Today, we do the same, honoring the beauty of motherhood in our church family. Thank You for every faithful mother, grandmother, and mentor who has shaped us with love, prayer, and godly example.
As we open Your Word, give us ears to hear, hearts ready to respond, and courage to lead. Help us serve faithfully in our homes, in our churches, and wherever You have placed us.
We also lift up our brothers and sisters at Evergreen Baptist Church. Strengthen their fellowship in the gospel. Pour out Your Spirit on their worship today. May Your kingdom come and Your will be done in every church across our community. In Jesus’ name we pray, Amen.
Scripture Reading:
1 Samuel 2:11-26, ESV
Then Elkanah went home to Ramah. And the boy, Samuel, was ministering to the Lord in the presence of Eli the priest.
Now the sons of Eli were worthless men. They did not know the LORD. The custom of the priests with the people was that when any man offered sacrifice, the priest’s servant would come, while the meat was boiling, with a three-pronged fork in his hand, and he would thrust it into the pan or kettle or cauldron or pot. All that the fork brought up the priest would take for himself. This is what they did at Shiloh to all the Israelites who came there. Moreover, before the fat was burned, the priest’s servant would come and say to the man who was sacrificing, “Give meat for the priest to roast, for he will not accept boiled meat from you but only raw.” And if the man said to him, “Let them burn the fat first, and then take as much as you wish,” he would say, “No, you must give it now, and if not, I will take it by force.” Thus the sin of the young men was very great in the sight of the LORD, for the men treated the offering of the LORD with contempt.
Samuel was ministering before the LORD, a boy clothed with a linen ephod. And his mother used to make for him a little robe and take it to him each year when she went up with her husband to offer the yearly sacrifice. Then Eli would bless Elkanah and his wife, and say, “May the LORD give you children by this woman for the petition she asked of the LORD.” So then they would return to their home.
Indeed the LORD visited Hannah, and she conceived and bore three sons and two daughters. And the boy Samuel grew in the presence of the LORD.
I. Samuel’s Faithfulness vs. Eli’s Corruption (vv. 12–21)
On this Mother’s Day, we turn to a passage that may seem, at first glance, to be a strange passage for a Mother’s Day celebration. But in this chapter, we discover a striking truth: faithful parenting matters, and its absence carries consequences.
Few places in Scripture paint such a vivid contrast. On one side, we see a ministry corrupted from within. On the other, a young boy quietly growing in the presence of the Lord. One legacy is crumbling under the weight of sin. The other is rising on a foundation of obedience and trust. This is not just a tale of two ministries. It is a tale of two families, two lineages, and two kinds of spiritual leadership.
Let’s begin with Samuel. Verse 18 tells us, “Samuel was ministering before the Lord.” That phrase may sound simple, but in Hebrew, it carries priestly weight. The same language used to describe Levites serving in the tabernacle is used here to describe a child. Samuel was not pretending. He was not mimicking faith. He was ministering. Serving. Worshiping.
And that reality challenges us. In our culture, we often underestimate what children can grasp spiritually. We assume they will grow into faith later. But Scripture shows us that God starts early. He does not wait for adulthood to work in his heart. And we, too, must not wait. We are called to plant seeds of faith early and often.
But Samuel did not arrive in the house of the Lord by accident. His journey was paved by the faith and prayers of his mother. Hannah was a woman of deep desperation and even deeper devotion. She cried out to the Lord in her barrenness. She made a vow and kept it. She dedicated her son before he was born, and she followed through when the time came.
Yet she did not stop mothering. Year after year, she returned to Shiloh with a little robe, lovingly made by hand. Every stitch carried a prayer. Every trip reaffirmed her trust in God. She didn’t just say, “He is Yours.” She lived it. And God honored her faithfulness. Verse 21 says, “The Lord visited Hannah,” and she gave birth to more children, three sons and two daughters. She gave God her first, and God gave her more than she imagined.
So let me say this to every mother and spiritual parent here: do not wait. Do not wait to speak life over your children. Do not wait to open the Scriptures with them. Do not wait to pray bold prayers over their future. Samuel was wearing the ephod before he understood its weight. God honored his obedience, and He honors ours too, even when it’s small, even when it’s early.
We push our children toward achievement, and rightly so. We sign them up for sports, lessons, and leadership camps. We cheer them on, help them with homework, and prepare them for the world. But if we give them every opportunity except the gospel, if we help them succeed in life but neglect their souls, we are failing them.
Psalm 127 reminds us that children are a heritage from the Lord. Like arrows in the hands of a warrior, they are meant to be sharpened, aimed, and released. We are not raising trophies. We are shaping arrows for God’s purposes. Our goal is not just success but surrender. Not just accomplishment but faithfulness.
II. Eli’s Missed Moment (vv. 22–26)
Now we come to the other side of the story. Eli’s sons, Hophni and Phinehas, were not just disappointing. Scripture says, “They were worthless men. They did not know the Lord.” These were priests. Leaders. Men who abused power, exploited worshipers, and treated holy things as common.
And Eli knew. He heard the reports. He confronted them with words. But words were all he offered. He did not restrain them. He did not remove them. He did not protect the name of God, the integrity of worship, or the holiness of the sanctuary. And because he did not act, the priesthood was stained, the name of God was mocked, and judgment began with his house. This was not just parental neglect. It was spiritual failure.
Now hear this clearly. Not every prodigal is the result of failed parenting. Even faithful parents can have children who stray. But in Eli’s case, the Scriptures are plain. He had the opportunity to act, and he refused. He feared offending his sons more than he feared offending his God. And that fear cost him everything.
This may seem like a heavy message for Mother’s Day. I understand that. But the contrast is too sharp to ignore. While Eli offered soft rebukes, Hannah offered bold surrender. While Eli held onto his sons and lost them, Hannah gave her son to God and gained a legacy. Eli had position. Hannah had faith. Eli wore priestly garments. Hannah raised a prophet.
Charles Spurgeon once said of Eli, “Yes, he rebuked them. And very gently he did it, dear old man. But we should not imitate him. There are other virtues besides gentleness.” He was right. There are moments when love must be strong. When discipline is necessary. When obedience to God comes before comfort in the home.
And even in the darkness of Eli’s story, there is hope. Verse 26 shines like a candle in a cave: “The boy Samuel continued to grow in stature and in favor with the Lord and also with man.” Those words are echoed later in the Gospel of Luke to describe the growth of Jesus. While corruption surrounded the priesthood, God was raising a voice. A child. A prophet. And behind him stood a mother who believed.
III. When Family Comes Before Faithfulness (vv. 27–36)
Eventually, God no longer sends warnings. He sends judgment. A prophet appears and speaks on behalf of the Lord. He reminds Eli of the honor he had received; the priestly calling, the access to God’s presence, the responsibility to lead. And then he exposes the root of Eli’s failure.
“You honored your sons more than Me.” (1 Samuel 2:29, ESvV)
That is the issue. Eli had let love become idolatry. He had confused affection with obedience. He allowed sin to flourish in the house of God because he could not bear to confront his own family.
And the verdict came: “Those who honor Me I will honor. Those who despise Me will be lightly esteemed” (1 Samuel 2:30, ESV). Eli’s house would fall. His sons would die. The priesthood would be given to another. What began as a promise ended in a warning to every generation.
Now permit me to detour for a moment to address something that weighs heavy on my heart. To any Christian parent who says, “I don’t want to force church or religion on my children” pause and consider what that really means. If you will not disciple your children, the world certainly will. If you do not teach them to bow to Christ, the culture will teach them to bow to idols; whether in the form of self, success, sexuality, or skepticism. There is no such thing as spiritual neutrality. Your children will worship someone, either the living God or the false gods of this age.
Eli’s failure was not a lack of affection for his sons. His failure was loving them more than God. He misplaced his loyalty. He honored their sin above God’s holiness. He tolerated rebellion because it wore the face of family. But God is not mocked. His mercy is vast, but not endless. When warnings go unheeded, judgment follows.
Parents, your calling is sacred. You are entrusted with immortal souls. You are not just raising children; you are shaping eternal beings, either for glory or for ruin. To neglect their spiritual training in the name of “freedom” is not kindness; it is abdication.
Scripture commands, “do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord” (Ephesians 6:4). Faith is not a lifestyle option, it is a life-or-death matter. It must be written on their hearts with urgency, consistency, and love. Here what God’s Word commands: “And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.” (Deuteronomy 6:6–7).
So parents, I beg you, teach your children to fear the Lord. Show them the beauty of Christ. And when they wander, and they will, do not shrink back from correction. For “the Lord disciplines the one He loves” (Hebrews 12:6), and wise parents will do the same. The goal is not control, but salvation. The aim is not to raise nice children, but new creations in Christ.
But even amid the failures we witness in our passage this morning, God’s grace breaks through. The Lord declares: “I will raise up for myself a faithful priest” (1 Samuel 2:35, ESV). In the immediate context, that promise pointed forward to Zadok, the priest who would serve faithfully under David and Solomon, restoring reverence in the priesthood where Eli’s house had faltered. But ultimately, this promise stretches beyond history into eternity, it finds its true and final fulfillment in Jesus Christ.
Where Eli failed, Jesus fulfilled. Where Eli turned a blind eye to sin, Jesus took sin upon Himself. Where Eli covered evil with silence, Jesus conquered evil with His blood. Eli’s sons brought shame to the sanctuary; Jesus, the true Son, brought holiness into the Most Holy Place. He is the High Priest who never compromised, the Son who always obeyed, the spotless Lamb who laid Himself down, not for His own sins, for He had none, but for ours, that we might be cleansed and reconciled to God.
And because of His perfect faithfulness, a new priesthood has been born, not of lineage or law, but of grace. In Him, we have become “a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for His own possession” (1 Peter 2:9). Our calling is not to repeat Eli’s indifference but to reflect Christ’s devotion. Through His sacrifice, we are now empowered by the Spirit to live as those who serve before the throne, bearing His name with reverence and joy.
Conclusion:
I want to conclude our sermon this morning with a word or encouragement. You may not have a platform or a title. You may not be visible to the crowd or celebrated by the culture. But if you are sowing in prayer, serving in love, and speaking truth into the next generation, your faithfulness matters.
One day, we will see it clearly. When everything is revealed, we will be amazed at how many blessings came from quiet acts of devotion. From mothers and grandmothers who prayed in silence. From spiritual mothers who stood in the gap when no one else would. From people who never preached a sermon but shaped generations through their faith.
When God begins something new, it often does not start with kings or priests. It starts with a mother on her knees. It begins with a child growing up in God’s presence. It begins with someone willing to say yes in the hidden places.
So what does that mean for us today? It means we must choose what kind of legacy we want to leave. Will we follow Eli’s passive silence or Christ’s bold obedience? Parents, hear this clearly. Your influence is real, and your voice carries weight. Like Hannah, you may not hold a position, but you have a sacred calling. You may not stand behind a pulpit, but you stand in prayer between your children and the world.
What you model during ordinary days will shape their extraordinary moments. Do not trade truth for comfort. Do not mistake gentleness for silence. This world does not need more polite religion. It needs bold and loving disciples. It needs mothers and fathers, mentors and teachers, who honor God first. Who correct in love, pray with conviction, and raise children who not only know about God but know His voice.
Let Eli’s story be a warning. Let Hannah’s life be an example. Let the obedience of Christ lead the way. Even now, in a world where altars are still defiled and compromise still spreads, God is raising up Samuels. And behind every Samuel is often a Hannah who is faithful, persistent, and surrendered, not just once, but every day.
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