Advent: Abounding in Love as We Await Christ’s Advent
December 8, 2024 Pastor: Hardin Crowder Series: Advent
Topic: Advent
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Introduction:
Advent is a sacred season of reflection and preparation, offering the Church an opportunity to pause and align our hearts and lives with God’s redemptive plan. It stands as a bridge between two pivotal moments in Christ’s story: His humble incarnation in Bethlehem and His victorious return in glory.
During Advent, we celebrate that Christ has already come to defeat sin and death, even as we look forward to His return to restore all things. He will wipe away every tear, renew creation, and make all things new. This tension between what Christ has accomplished and what is yet to come shapes our faith, urging us to live with hope and intentionality.
For the early Church, the promise of Christ’s return was not merely a belief but a defining truth. It gave them purpose in their mission, courage in trials, and an enduring sense of identity. The letters of Paul echo this hope, filled with words of love, encouragement, and confidence in God’s unchanging faithfulness.
As we enter this season, let us turn to Scripture and fix our eyes on Christ, who was, who is, and who is to come.
Scripture Reading:
1 Thessalonians 3:6-13 (ESV)
But now that Timothy has come to us from you, and has brought us the good news of your faith and love and reported that you always remember us kindly and long to see us, as we long to see you— for this reason, brothers, in all our distress and affliction we have been comforted about you through your faith. For now we live, if you are standing fast in the Lord. 9 For what thanksgiving can we return to God for you, for all the joy that we feel for your sake before our God, as we pray most earnestly night and day that we may see you face to face and supply what is lacking in your faith?
Now may our God and Father himself, and our Lord Jesus, direct our way to you, and may the Lord make you increase and abound in love for one another and for all, as we do for you, so that he may establish your hearts blameless in holiness before our God and Father, at the coming of our Lord Jesus with all his saints.
Opening Prayer:
Heavenly Father, in this sacred season of Advent, we gather before You with hearts filled with longing and hope. We thank You for sending Your Son, Jesus Christ, to bring light into the darkness and redemption to a broken world. As we prepare to celebrate His birth, we also look forward with eager anticipation to His return. Help us, O Lord, to live as people of expectancy, cultivating hearts of joy, lives of prayer, and spirits of gratitude. Fill us with Your love that it may overflow to those around us. Open our eyes to see Your presence and our ears to hear Your voice through Your Word today. Sanctify us by Your Spirit, shaping us for Your purposes and readying us for the day of Christ’s glorious return. May this time of worship and reflection prepare us not only for Christmas but for eternity. In the name of Jesus, our Savior and King, we pray. Amen.
Introduction:
Paul’s words in 1 Thessalonians 3:8, “For now we live, if you are standing fast in the Lord,” show his deep connection to the Thessalonian believers. His joy and purpose are tied to their faithfulness. He speaks as a spiritual parent, invested in their growth and readiness for Christ’s return. His prayer for them goes beyond knowledge, focusing on their spiritual maturity.
Advent carries the same spirit. It’s a time of active preparation, not passive waiting. Like Paul, we are called to examine our faith, address weaknesses, and invite God to shape us. In 1 Thessalonians 3:11, Paul prays, “May our God and Father Himself and our Lord Jesus direct our way to you,” reminding us that God’s grace underpins all our efforts. Advent is also communal, a journey we take together as the body of Christ. Just as the Thessalonians’ faithfulness brought Paul joy, our progress in faith strengthens and encourages the Church.
Ultimately, This season invites us to prepare inwardly for the return of our King, celebrating not just His birth but His future glory. With this in mind, Paul’s prayer for the Thessalonians provides a guide for Advent: grow in love, pursue holiness, and place your hope in Christ’s promises.
Love Abounding in Preparation for Christ’s Return (v. 12)
Paul’s prayer in 1 Thessalonians 3:12 calls us to “increase and abound in love,” showing us that love is not an optional addition to faith. Instead, it is the defining mark of a follower of Christ. Jesus Himself declared, “By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another” (John 13:35). Love is the clearest evidence of a heart transformed by Christ and the fruit that prepares us for His return.
The words “increase and abound” bring to mind the image of love overflowing like a cup filled beyond its capacity. The Greek word perisseuō” (abound) highlights the unlimited nature of divine love, a love that exceeds human expectations. This love is not limited to those we find easy to care for but extends to strangers and even enemies. Paul urges the Thessalonians, who were already known for their love, to grow even more, reflecting the vast and boundless love of God.
Paul also emphasizes that this love is not produced by human effort. His prayer, “May the Lord make you increase and abound in love,” reveals that true, Christlike love comes only from God. It is poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit (Romans 5:5), transforming what is natural and limited into something sacrificial and enduring. Only by depending on God can we reflect His perfect love in our lives and relationships.
In the world of Paul’s time, love that crossed social and cultural divisions was extraordinary. The ancient world was deeply divided by class, ethnicity, and religion, and love was often limited to one’s immediate circle. Yet the early Church defied these divisions. Their love for one another, reaching across boundaries of status and culture, stood as a striking testimony to the gospel. The early Christian writer Tertullian noted this, saying, “See how they love one another!” Such love not only attracted others to Christ but also united believers into one family.
Today, our world remains divided by race, politics, class, and countless other barriers. Paul’s prayer invites us to embody Christ’s love in ways that bring healing and restoration. Advent is a perfect time to reflect on the love of Christ revealed in His first coming and to extend that love to others. Within the Church, this calls for unity, reconciliation, and grace. Are there broken relationships in our lives that need to be repaired? Advent challenges us to seek peace and live out the radical love of Christ.
This call to love must also transform our homes. While the holiday season is often marked by joy, it can also bring unresolved tensions and past hurts to the surface. Advent provides an opportunity to approach family relationships with humility, patience, and forgiveness. Imagine the change in our homes if we sought to heal relationships and promote peace. By doing so, we reflect the sacrificial love of Christ, who reconciles us to Himself and to one another.
Paul’s challenge to love “all” extends beyond family and church communities. It urges us to care for the lonely, the suffering, and the marginalized. Simple acts of kindness, such as sharing a meal, offering an encouraging word, or helping someone in need, reveal Christ’s love in meaningful ways. As we prepare for His return, we can be agents of His grace, bringing hope to a world that longs for healing.
The incarnation of Christ is the ultimate demonstration of sacrificial love. The Creator of the universe humbled Himself to take on human flesh, bear the weight of sin, and offer us eternal life. Reflecting on His love during Advent inspires us to love others in the same way, showing kindness, forgiveness, and generosity even when it is costly. By doing so, we live out the heart of Advent, pointing others to the Savior.
Paul’s prayer for love to “increase and abound” is a call to live out the gospel in practical ways. This kind of love unites the Church, strengthens families, and brings healing to a broken world. As we light the Advent candles, their glow reminds us of Christ’s light, a love that pierces the darkness and leads us toward His kingdom. This Advent, let us abound in love as we prepare our hearts and lives for the return of our Savior.
Holiness as Preparation for Christ’s Return (v. 13)
Paul’s prayer for the Thessalonians moves from love to an earnest plea for holiness: “so that he may establish your hearts blameless in holiness before our God and Father” (1 Thessalonians 3:13). Like love, holiness is not an additional feature of the Christian life but its very essence. It is the believer’s response to the extravagant grace of God, a life set apart for His purposes. Holiness is far more than outward morality or good behavior; it is a heart fully devoted to God, marked by integrity, purity, and a joyful surrender to His will. Importantly, Paul’s vision of holiness is not about striving for perfection through human effort. Instead, it is about allowing the Spirit of God to transform us from the inside out so that we may stand blameless before Him.
Advent offers the Church a precious opportunity to reflect on this call to holiness. When Christ first came, He came not only to save us from the penalty of sin but to liberate us from its power and to remake us in His image. Holiness is the evidence of this transformation. It is not simply a matter of improving our actions but of becoming entirely new people in Christ. As Paul’s prayer reminds us, sanctification is both God’s work and our responsibility. The Holy Spirit, like a refiner’s fire, purifies our hearts and minds, but we must willingly submit to His work. Holiness flourishes when we surrender our thoughts, motives, and deeds to Christ and allow Him to shape us according to His perfect will.
The season of Advent invites us to pause and examine the state of our hearts. Paul’s prayer challenges us to ask difficult questions: Are there sins we have ignored, justifying them as small or insignificant? Are there distractions in our lives—worldly ambitions, unhealthy attachments, or misplaced priorities—that have pulled us away from the Lord? Advent is a time to bring these things into the light, to confess where we have gone astray, and to realign our hearts with God’s purposes. Holiness begins with humility, an honest recognition of our failures, and continues as we place our trust in God’s ability to heal, restore, and transform us.
However, holiness is not only about what happens within us. It must also be reflected in the way we live. Advent calls us to take practical steps to pursue holiness in every area of life. This includes rededicating ourselves to spiritual disciplines such as prayer, fasting, and meditating on Scripture. These practices are not ends in themselves but tools that help us draw near to God, discern His will, and walk in obedience to Him. Holiness is also made visible in our relationships with others. It is seen in acts of service performed without seeking recognition, in compassion extended to the hurting, and in forgiveness granted to those who have wronged us. True holiness is a life marked by love, justice, and mercy, a life that mirrors the character of God to a watching world.
This call to holiness fits perfectly within the tension of Advent, which celebrates the “already” and anticipates the “not yet.” Christ has already come, and through His life, death, and resurrection, He has secured our salvation. Yet we live in the in-between, waiting for the day when He will return to complete His work of redemption. Holiness is the way we live faithfully in this waiting period. It is not about earning salvation. Salvation has already been accomplished through Christ. No holiness is about responding to God’s great love by seeking to become more like Him. Holiness is both an expression of gratitude for what Christ has done and a declaration of hope in what He will one day bring to completion.
Holiness also serves as a powerful testimony to the world. In a culture where self-interest, division, and moral compromise are common, a life of holiness stands out as a witness to the transforming power of the gospel. It is a visible demonstration that God’s grace does not merely forgive sins but also transforms lives. When we live blamelessly and act justly, we point others to the One who is holy and invite them to experience His saving love.
Advent also reminds us that holiness is not achieved through our own strength. It is God who establishes our hearts as blameless before Him. The same grace that saves us is the grace that sustains and sanctifies us. As Paul writes elsewhere, “He who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ” (Philippians 1:6). Our role is to yield to His Spirit, trusting that His power is sufficient to change even the hardest of hearts. This process of sanctification is not always easy; it often requires us to let go of deeply ingrained habits, attitudes, or desires. Yet, as we trust in God’s grace and faithfully follow His leading, we are conformed more and more into the likeness of Christ.
Advent also challenges us to see holiness as more than an individual pursuit. Holiness strengthens the body of Christ, uniting believers as one in purpose and mission. When the Church collectively commits to a life of purity, love, and devotion to God, it becomes a beacon of hope in a dark and divided world. Holiness within the Church fosters reconciliation, encourages mutual support, and enables believers to stand firm in the face of trials. As we pursue holiness together, we not only prepare ourselves for Christ’s return but also help to advance His kingdom on earth.
Ultimately, holiness is both a gift and a calling. It is the work of God in us, yet it requires our active participation. It is the means by which we grow closer to Christ, glorify God, and fulfill our purpose as His people. Advent is a time to embrace this calling with renewed commitment, trusting that the God who calls us to holiness will also equip us for it. His power is sufficient to overcome our weaknesses, and His grace is enough to sustain us on the journey.
As we light the Advent candles, let their glow remind us of the light of Christ, who came into the world to save us and to make us holy. Let this Advent season be a time of reflection, repentance, and renewal. May we embrace the call to holiness with joy and trust, knowing that God is faithful to complete His work in us. As we prepare our hearts for Christ’s return, may our lives shine with His holiness, bringing glory to God and hope to the world.
Hope Anchored in Christ’s Return (v. 13)
Finally, Paul’s prayer in 1 Thessalonians 3:13 draws us to hope, highlighting the ultimate promise: the return of our Lord Jesus Christ with all His saints. This hope is not a fleeting wish or a sentimental idea tied to the season. It is not about the warmth of holiday traditions or an abstract sense of goodwill. Instead, it is a firm and unshakable certainty grounded in the character and faithfulness of God. Just as Christ’s first coming was foretold and fulfilled with precision, His second coming is guaranteed by the same God who keeps every promise.
For the Thessalonians, this promise of Christ’s return was their anchor in the midst of trials and persecution. Their hope was not a passive optimism but an active confidence that gave them strength to endure. Christian hope, as Paul describes it, is far deeper than positive thinking. It is a confident expectation rooted in the solid foundation of God’s Word. The writer of Hebrews captures this beautifully, calling it “a sure and steadfast anchor of the soul” (Hebrews 6:19). This hope holds firm, even in the fiercest storms of life. Advent rekindles this hope in us, reminding us that the darkness we face, whether in the brokenness of the world or in the struggles within ourselves, will not prevail. When Christ returns, every sorrow will cease, and His eternal light will shine forever.
For the Thessalonians, hope was not passive but active. It sustained their faithfulness under persecution and gave them the courage to persevere. Their example continues to inspire believers today. Hope is not simply about waiting for better days; it is about enduring with the assurance that every effort for the Lord is meaningful and that God is working through all circumstances. Paul reminds us of this truth in 2 Corinthians 4:17: “For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison.” Advent invites us to embrace this perspective, encouraging us to endure hardship with the knowledge that God is shaping us for His eternal purposes.
This Advent hope does not stop at personal encouragement. It moves us to action. It begins with gratitude as we remember God’s faithfulness in the past and shift our focus from the challenges of the moment to His greater plan. Gratitude transforms our outlook, enabling us to see not only the difficulties we face but also the presence of God walking with us through them. This joy-filled gratitude becomes the fuel for our perseverance and the lens through which we view life’s trials.
Hope also compels us to share its light with others. Just as the Thessalonians’ endurance inspired generations of believers, our hope can become a source of strength for those around us. Advent calls us to extend encouragement to the weary, pointing them to the promises of Christ. In a world weighed down by despair, our words and actions can reflect the truth that redemption is near. By living with hope, we become beacons of light, reminding others that Christ’s return is certain and that His kingdom will bring restoration and joy.
As we reflect on the hope of Advent, we are reminded that this season is not only about remembering Christ’s first coming but also about preparing for His second. The trials we endure today are not without purpose; they are part of God’s redemptive work, preparing us for eternal glory. Our hope is a testimony to the watching world that Christ is victorious, that His promises are true, and that His return will usher in a day when every tear will be wiped away.
This Advent, let us embrace this hope with renewed faith and gratitude. Let it anchor our souls through every storm, inspire us to endure with joy, and move us to share its light with others. As we await the fulfillment of God’s promises, may our lives reflect the unshakable hope that Christ has brought into the world and will one day bring to completion.
Conclusion: Responding to Christ’s Advent
As we conclude this sacred time of reflection during Advent, may our hearts be deeply stirred by the promises of God and the hope of Christ’s return. Christ revealed the depth of God’s love and grace in His first coming, stepping into our world to redeem what was lost. In His second coming, He will bring the fullness of justice and restoration, making all things new.
Let us live in response to these truths: abounding in love, growing in holiness, and overflowing with hope. May our lives reflect the kingdom that is already among us and yet to come.
This Advent season is an invitation to renewal, a time to realign your heart with God’s purposes. As you prepare your homes and lives for the joy of Christmas, prepare your spirit for His coming. Seek renewal in His love, foster unity within His Church, and eagerly anticipate the day when every tear will be wiped away, and His perfect reign will be complete.
Closing Prayer:
Gracious God, we give You thanks for the hope of Advent, for the promises fulfilled in the coming of Christ, and for the promises yet to come at His return. May the truths we have heard today take root in our hearts, bearing fruit in lives that abound in love, grow in holiness, and shine with the light of Your kingdom. Teach us to live in joyful preparation, to proclaim Your gospel with urgency, and to reflect Your grace in every relationship and interaction. As we go forth into the world, let the anticipation of Your Son’s return shape our thoughts, guide our steps, and inspire our actions. Keep us steadfast in faith, united in love, and anchored in the hope that You, who have begun a good work in us, will bring it to completion. May our lives be a testimony to Your faithfulness until that glorious day when we see our Savior face-to-face. In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
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